It’s amazing how much enjoyment a person can find playing with pets. This evening I spent a good amount of time with my new friend Oreo chasing and retrieving a ball.

The same can be said with human-sized pets. I know that the idea that someone would be a pet to a Dominant may be abnormal for the Vanilla flavored world, but in the BDSM community, it is a thing.

Have you given head Pat’s to your submissive? Did you play Tickle Wars or cuddle while watching a good Disney movie?  The idea that intimacy is about building connections and a relationship based on trust and honesty in a scary world should be common knowledge. Still, for many, this is a foreign idea.

Today, with the idea of building intimacy, I invited my Dominant to get a Mani-Pedi. We had a great time, and it was well-timed, as she wanted to get one done before going on a cross-ocean journey with her Primary partner. I brought them both coffee from Starbucks because we all liked them, and then I spent the afternoon before the appointed time going for a walk with her dog.

While looking for examples of intimacy, I found this helpful site that laid out the foundations of intimacy. Please check this out; it will help you build and maintain better relationships.

https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/relationships-creating-intimacy

This describes how intimacy is really developed and maintained and the ways that intimacy can be destroyed.

Be good to each other, and have a wonderful evening.