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One way growth?
What is one way you have grown this year? Good afternoon friends. So far this year has been a year to grow in my understanding of safe healthy poly and ENM relationships. How it affects our D/s relationship(s) and how to learn to manage my reactions to things out of my control,which is everything. Reconnecting times and bedrooms as well…
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Healthy boundaries?
Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships. Good morning friends. Living in a poly D/s household is interesting because we have set up boundaries about what is okay and what isn’t and where discussing certain things is okay and where not to. What kinds of behaviour are acceptable and what are not. These healthy boundaries frame the relationship…
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Sexy Saturday
Good morning friends and welcome to my sexy Saturday post. This is all about intention, desire and a hunger that’s primal waiting to be sated. With the icy blue balls of frost it’s a struggle to stay warm. So light the fires and roast some nuts and have a lovely day warming your fires as we journey into tomorrow. Keep…
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Balancing feelings
Good evening friends. After some discomfort and discussion M’lady took me to the hospital yesterday. There’s currently a piece of surgical tubing in my penis and it got stuck out of reach. It’s incredibly important to be aware of any detachment between your chastity device and your urethra tube when wearing any device with such features. Unfortunately for myself, it…
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Downsized expectations
Good afternoon friends. I’ve been feeling down for a bit because of an expectation that after a while if I’m struggling and need some sex that she would provide it, and while I know that even to assume that I’d get an automatic yes, but what I’m trying to keep in my mind is that I’m not in charge. And…
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Not the drones you are looking for…
Good morning friends. Ever get the feeling that you’re completely barking up the wrong tree? Last night and this morning brought me clarity in how I can best handle myself and my emotions to avoid setting off the explosive destructive storm of hurt. It’s not as easy as I thought it would be sharing my feelings and desires with those…
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Looking for …
Good morning friends. This morning I have hit sub drop hard, after a play party last night and a different after party I am left with this feeling of loneliness, sadness and heartbreak. As the weeks since coming to the island to live with M’lady have passed our bonding time has reduced and with more Magic and less relationship development…
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The day that broke…
Today is the day that we break free from the old lease and hopefully sign a new one that stays the same price. Changing out tenants to improve M’lady’s mental health is something that we have been working on for a few months now. With all the walls washed, floors cleaned and the suite basically as close to pre moved…
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Learning to walk…
Good morning friends. Everyone starts in a place of a newborn. Learning to trust the one taking care of you and leaning on them for strength. Once you have enough strength to stand on your own you stand, but learning to walk and to follow the guidance of the one who raised you to this point, Learning to walk within…
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Unrestrained growth
Good morning friends. While the sun is out we get the benefit of growing in the warmth, the pleasant caress of sunbeams is giving off good pleasant feelings. I know my growth trigger is the sun and heat, but what is your growth trigger? I have more than one growth trigger, pain is another one as are directions from M’lady…
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Good at?
What are you good at? Good afternoon friends. I’m good at web development, and application development. I’m also good at working on vehicles. I have the knowledge and experience with all of these and the only hold back for me is a willingness for software companies to give me a chance. The tech sector has…
Submission
Good morning friends. I was reading a post on Fetlife and the discussion was submission. How it looks like, feels like and what is involved in submission. One of my favourite authors has what I believe to be an accurate description of submission. Ms Rikka’s definition is this: true submission is not about what the…
Sinday sauciness 5-24-26
Good afternoon friends. Yesterday was a good day for a trip to the beach and to get out for a good walk and we took advantage of it as a group. M’lady, myself and a special friend, we took to nature and enjoyed a really good time. With all the stress some seemed to melt…
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Jecture, exploring BDSM and sexuality 