Yeah I got a bit surprised last night when i was approached by a Little looking for a Daddy figure. What surprised me the most was that my kinks don’t really include ABDL listed although in the past I have explored some in the little’s worlds that often times is mostly lighthearted and involves cartoons, colouring and pacifiers. Often it also includes diapers on the littles who are regressing.

I’m not against diaper play but I had thought for the longest time that once my three kids were out of diapers I would be done with them so learning how the new connection is about diapers and how they like to use them came as a bit of a sit back and think about it situation. Currently I’m entertaining the idea that maybe involving myself in a situation that puts me in a caregiver role relationship with the individual.

How does one decide if the situation is something that is worth exploring? I think that if I am going to be involved in something like this then I need to get to know them better and actually meet them face to face. If I base my decision only on what’s online it runs the risk of being a halfway understanding of who they are and how they are.

Time for the planning of the next step.