Good morning friends.

This last weekend was challenging. M’lady was on a trip with her NP, while I was stuck with people who don’t actually live in my house taking over the upstairs floor and having a weekend long coke-meth fuelled party.

Cops were called and the trespassers were asked to leave. I’ve had to deal with this before but usually it ends without someone getting assaulted, unfortunately for one of the people who live here, they did get assaulted.

Most of the time when physical violence is discussed in my blog it’s because I’ve enjoyed the experience, this isn’t the case. In Canada we have a fairly reasonable set of laws where if the impact play were not consensual the dominant person may get into legal trouble.

This was not the case in the assault, it was planned and intentional violence directed at someone who was trying to be kind after we kicked them out of the house.

Welcome to dealing with people who consume hard drugs regularly, it’s not for the faint of heart or for someone who is weak willed. Standing your ground and calling in backup like cops to protect yourself is generally your best bet, but I’ve also lived through situations much more challenging with machete held to my neck in one instance.

Learning to say no when I was younger, after saying yes too many times was challenging, but ultimately I believe has given me the ability to resist the drugs and opt for sanity and the remaining within the structure of my relationship with M’lady, and my friend, all of which would disappear if I went back to the same disgusting behaviour that the trespassers were doing.

I have a zero tolerance policy on hard drugs. Not that I won’t talk to you, or be friendly with you but I won’t be party to the consumption of hard drugs. They alter brain chemistry and can cause major health problems.

Not only that but hard drugs are often the cause of violent crimes as well as petty theft. At least with marijuana you get people wanting slurpees and snacks, not crime.

If you have the ability to get someone off hard drugs, I wholeheartedly encourage you to send them to Narcotics Anonymous. Let’s help heal the world one person at a time.

In know this post is probably not the most uplifting post, but I hope it makes you think about the many people still dealing with addictions and I hope that it gives you some perspective on how things can get if you’re not careful on who you let in your house and life.

Keep it safe sane and consensual friends and keep it kinky 😈