Good morning friends.

Today we are reminded of why we vet new connections before letting them into our lives fully. M’lady and I have been reviewing a connection we have. It turned out to be NG or no good for us and our relationship. We had a reason to do a more full vetting process after a bad experience and the results were disheartening.

The information coming back to us was about repeated red flag behavior. This behavior targeted multiple different women in a wide range of cities. It occurred not only locally but also in the place he moved from originally.

The only real choice at this point is to cut off all contact and be smart about any new contacts. Yes, it also means both of us need another STI test done. That’s okay, as we need to do it again soon anyways.

At first, the red flag I saw didn’t seem significant. But, it now highlights why I can’t trust them anymore. It was a fresh in January profile on the Fetlife site. I should have questioned if they are actually someone who knows anything other than 50 shades of doing it wrong.

Well, now that it’s over it’s recovery time from the disaster.

Keep it kinky and SSC⛓️😈