Downsized expectations

Good afternoon friends.

I’ve been feeling down for a bit because of an expectation that after a while if I’m struggling and need some sex that she would provide it, and while I know that even to assume that I’d get an automatic yes, but what I’m trying to keep in my mind is that I’m not in charge. And I never was, not of her body or decisions.

I am only in charge of myself and how i behave,well sorta in charge but my decision to follow my owner where we go is kinda how I suggested then swapped out cages to eliminate the penis from consideration and go from there.

Flat cage keeping the member safely inverted out of the way
The balls first way better with the penis tucked away

Yes we are working on doing 24/7 FLR in person. It’s not always easy and with poly it’s challenging at times.

Not everyone gets their cup filled the same way and I am beginning to accept that. I’ve been given permission to fill my cup in other ways so I’ll see what I can see and do what I can do.

Keep it kinky 😈

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