What’s your definition of romantic?

Surprisingly enough I find myself firmly convinced that submission is romantic, and that getting to the surrendering to a partner regardless of their initial intention was only friendship, the submission is deeply personal for each person who submits. Most develop romantic feelings for the dominant partner leading the dynamic.

I’m not immune to this and am now dealing with this and as such doing a good amount of self reflection. It’s difficult in that there are feelings on my part, if things change life will change for me. Thankfully nothing has happened to damage the friendship.